Depin Harness ConnectorsI was pretty happy to figure out how to depin the big engine harness connectors as well as the rest of the connectors so i took some pictures to show you guys how to do it for future reference.
On the inside of the connectors, there is a white cover. The goal is to remove the cover so you can get to the lever which releases the pin from its lock. So to do this, get a small flat head (or anything that will fit in the hole - i used a small precision flat head screw driver
Pop the white cover off like so
Now take your tiny precision screwdriver and put it into the female end of the pin. Lift up and push the pin out. You have to lift the pin out of the lock on the bottom.
congrats, you have depinned the connector. The male pin connectors are the exact same way except you have to use pliers to pull up the white lock.